Relational Coaching for Men
You’re trying your ass off
But for some confusing reason, the life you’ve been building—the life you’ve always wanted to live—is apparently becoming impossible.
Like it or not. And you don’t like it. That much is clear.
What’s also clear is that you’re noticing reflections of this impossibility in your relationships, like the ways people speak to you, or how they listen. Or how they fail to listen.
The cadence and depth of those reflections seem to be growing.
What’s happening has nothing to do with the amount of effort you’ve been putting in, because trying is practically your middle name.
But.
There’s no denying that something has shifted in your relationships, and there’s no denying the storm clouds forming overhead.
You may even believe you know what’s causing them, but nothing you’ve tried has made them go away. And sometimes? They really hang around.
It’s not just the darkness that’s concerning. It’s that it all feels like a storm you’re gonna have to battle by yourself, alone.
Maybe.
You should try this…
It’s not bad enough that the resounding chorus of voices seems to sing endlessly about what you should do. It’s far worse.
The should is coming from inside the house.
Nobody is louder than your own self talk, which is no longer just harmonizing. It’s taken on the melody as its own. The song goes something like this…
Something needs to change about me.
Worse. If it doesn’t finally change, and for real this time, the life you’ve always wanted to live will always seem just beyond your reach if not impossible.
This isn’t your first rodeo, cowboy. There’s something about this pattern that feels familiar in the most non-comforting way. You’re sure you’ve worked on this before.
Why, then, is this… where you are now?
It can all feel like there’s some mystery you haven’t yet figured out, like there’s something missing.
If you could just figure it out, you could leverage the full force of all your trying ass at the problem.
But.
What if there was never anything missing in the first place?